This includes a majority Christian circle. @ Law Prof: And Is lynne hybels still married to bill The new thing i learned from nancy ortberg's post was that bill has personally. I can't apologize for his choices, but I do apologize for mine," she explained. This is going to get worse before it can get better. Perhaps its just honest ignorance, perhaps its denial. One comment not allowed. If/when he does come forward to confess and repent of past bad behavior, he and Willow Creek elders will no longer be viewed as honest and credible among the remaining members. Interesting how you get it, but those in high places do not. Please take a look at the situation in 1 Coninthians 5. Rudyard Kipling, The Picts Song (about guerilla warfare), Ok. Ok. I think you have to either ask, as okrapod mentioned, or kind of read the room. So, Ive also read it in the Original Languages. I thought it was weird when my friends dads would kiss my cheek but I recognized that was a cultural difference really and let it be. He then shared unfiltered thoughts about me, describing in great detail specific parts of my body he liked, and said he thought I was effusive, sexy and had great candor, mentioned what a promising leader I was, and he said. If I felt uncomfortable I removed myself from the situation and spoke up. That statement should never have been sent out and hasnt been corrected to this day! Of course Billy Graham never led anyone to Jesus. WCC defenders. What is the Body of Christ? I have Every year for many years OT once and NT twice- every year. It goes with safe spaces at college. A very misunderstood view of redemption; repentance and forgiveness is taught out there especially in seeker Megas. I hope that someone who knows what they are doing is archiving all of the official statements and documents by Hybels and WC. It never appeared that they were the type of people that would not speak up. Yes, it should be mentioned. Because you put so much trust and admire a leader like Hybels, your first instinct is to dismiss anything off about them. Bill called my hotel room in Sweden, in February of 1998, after a long conference day. There are too many similarities between their stories. Very sad indeed. However, there are a couple of things we cannot judge and this is what I believe what Scripture is talking about. I, like so many others a tragic victim of corrupted Christianity. This is exactly what I had in mind!? Dimensions: 0.6" x 5.4" x 8.0" Age Range: 18 years and up Paul Aurandt Jr. Best Study Bible! Our job is to sow seeds. There are evil people who look like good people. In the seeker world, it tends to mean numbers, programs, etc. teaching other churches how to impliment the Williow Creek model. The Body of Christ will be fine. Such a horror of more revictimization. The works of an evangelist is to call people to Jesus. This does not quite add up. These people have patience for the long con. 21 For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God through wisdom, it pleased God through the folly of what we preach to save those who believe. The sheer resources at these (mostly) mens disposal. Is it even possible that one leads to the other, as the power dynamic created by abuse is addictive? Nancy, like Vonda, believed her experience with Bill was an isolated incident. Learn to be alone with yourself. But I can certainly tell when a guy does it to cop a feel. The fact that people post here and not just give up on the church and Christainty gives me great comfort the NT clearly warns of false profits amoung the brethern and clearly teaches we should have qualified leaders. Dee, is Julie a new commenter here? What I count is as follows: She is the co-founder of Willow Creek Community Church, and wife to Bill Hybels the founder and former senior pastor of Willow Creek Community Church. Further, if a few women get run over in this situtation it is fine, and in other cases if a bunch of litlle boys get rapped, thats OK since in long run the positives outway the negatives. Being gracious, forbearing people who do not want to hold our pastor to the standard of perfection, we persuade ourselves that we misread the situation, misunderstood the words, are making too big a deal of silly things, and so on. By the time you get there, youve probably already been compromised yourself, youve supported a lot of evil things, youve shouted down others who were only trying to get at the truth (as I once did, alassorry, Adam, you were right and I was wrong, pastor really was up to no good), and its not easy to extricate yourself or your family. Terrible, terrible thing. Put it in context and think about such a convo. Ummm-not exactly. Why wait until now?? Bill has been married to Lynn Hybels since 1974. The issue with that is that its not like the secular world, in which after perps have done their time, they can make a living in their field of avocation (though in the case of fraud perpetrators and/or crimes with victims, future funds may be diverted to said victims). Barb, I must say, you have this amazing gift of being able to cut through a persons (premeditated) bullpoo. There was also some sort of one world conspiracy deal. Be at peace. Kudos to these two publishers. It was humbling for you, but there was nothing inappropriate about Bill trying to guide your whole self as an up and coming leader. Its not a numbers game, its not like worldly sales with rainmakers and marketing and big hits. JIHAD! Hee hee. Christ truely cared about the underdog, and did not like religious leaders that abused their positions. @ okrapod: How can you say to your brother, Brother, let me take the speck out of your eye, when you yourself fail to see the plank in your own eye? : 4:10-11 ESV), For Christ did not send me to baptize but to preach the gospel, and not with words of eloquent wisdom, lest the cross of Christ be emptied of its power. Not just anyone can do it well. So Im now wondering. Its ridiculous. I hope that you are correct that what was stated by Jodi Walle is not true. The statement was wrong in every way and since there is a great possibility that the group is very concerned and just seeking truth. Religious, but spiritually destitute. Founding and Senior Pastor Bill Hybels preaches during a service at Willow Creek Community Church on Jan. 13, 2018, in South Barrington . Dee and Brad, have you read my series about Don Hennessys work? . Remember Bill hybels stepped down. Emails can be kept confidential with appropriate IT input. These things are often expected immediately in the Christian world. Christianity Lite, theyve taken the salt out of salt. Why is Willow Creek exempt? Activism. Perhaps its just honest ignorance, perhaps its denial. Moths making holes in a cloak, I have to think, absolutely have to think, that a courageous leader sure wouldve done things differently in the last month, whether Hybels is totally clean and all of these women leaders in the church and old friends of Bill are part of a vast conspiracy to destroy Bill Hybels, the righteous man, or if Hybels is dirty and all along was an abusive sociopath and terminal liar. And my guess is the elders dont know either. Headless Unicorn Guy wrote: We got in deep, and had a very tough time when we got out. Including the Ortbergs. 2) Its the cost of doing business as a very large or successful church The celebs were protected by their inner circle who went along with the exterior lie of image and performance, hiding ugly dark secrets. False teaching/theology always has a wrong view of God, man, sin, and salvation. Sounds like at least some of the accusers would like to see justice for sure, but also redemption for even Hybels. And conveniently you are dismissing the affair. Thanks, Julie! @ jackie: The contents might be encrypted, and, if a key used to decrypt them is lost (or not handed over), they arent readable. Theres theory, and then practise. In Megas there are layers upon layers of protective bubble wrap for guys like Hybels. Once again, you are doing Satans work not Gods. Who though renowned for his wisdom, had a strong of Rich Kid with Famous Father syndrome. @ truthseeker00: More than we know. As Im reading the comments, its becoming evident that theres something horribly wrong with Willow Creek church. As I say if he had a true understanding of what his behavior had done he might give the kind of apology that these women want. Read reviews from world's largest community for readers. He did so for a reason and it is time to wake up and smell the coffee. The retiring pastor calls it all collusion and lies. How many times do you think it needs to be posted? @ JB: I think its more common than any of us think. So done. I sat on a committee for two years which did nothing but brainstorm ways to increase retention rates and decrease progression time through our programsour biggest nightmare was the student who didnt get connected to some group, we knew they were likely to get lonely, drop out, go back to their hometown and become a settled-in townie. She, too, encountered the Ambien excuse. There is more to this story. In the 1980s, she was the executive assistant to Bill Hybels, the senior pastor of Willow Creek Community Church. Brad may be a Christian, one stunted by being immersed in an environment that had the form of godliness while denying the power, but he also may be one who wouldnt know Jesus if He walked up and gave him a hug. Prayer Requests I believed, everyone believed, that he was one of the good guys, committed to fighting for womens rights, committed to our marriage, and to the women he worked with. @ Thersites: Its a very reasonable step for Mr Hybels publishers to at least suspend his books until a more independent investigation has been completed. I mean, most say they want the truth. Many friends of mine wouldnt have been willing to come to church (and eventually come to Christ) without the rock worship band and friendly-to-outsiders sermons. So, yes, Id vouch for his legitimacy. Those are, in my opinion, less the goals than the tools used to achieve the real goals, which I am guessing are not the spiritual health of the Body of Christ. I mean, it makes for good gossip too. Hybels, the influential founder and pastor willow creek, resigned in april 2018 after 42 years leading the church. Rags to Riches to Rags in three generations. It creates an incredible amount of cognitive dissonance. Its up to the Willow Creek to distinguish themselves and so far, based on the comments here, they have not. Ive no doubt that there was irregularities going on at WCC. Pew sitters paid for these seminars Of course not. Its not the victim. If that were odd then I would change, but like I said that is just how we do. Just a followup to my above comment. I am a Billy Graham fan, just so you know. This is a crucial part of dealing with horrors of abuse. Bye! Of course, if theres some hidden motive of those speaking out, thats one thing, but as has been said, this is all in the process of getting out after many questions have been raised about what was or wasnt done with previous accountability procedures (emails, board meetings, etc.). My former abusive, cultish and abuser-friendly church was positively obsessed with unity. The pastor preached on it continually. I am terribly concerned that there is game playing going on here by people who cannot accept that Bill Hybels has resigned and he did so believe there are problems that people cannot accept. Driscoll will do quite well in charismatic ranks. But worse. Nancy, like Vonda, believed her experience with Bill was an isolated incident. Don calls men who abuse their female intimate partners skilled offenders. Dee, I was wondering how you got him to do that gig. I have books by Bill Hybels on my shelves, and really thought he was one of the good ones. I pity you if thats the case. 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